Monday, November 16, 2015

DIY Curb Appeal in a Weekend

When we first bought our house, a row of lush, plump hostas greeted us at the front porch. They looked lovely and full, until one month later, when they looked like straggly haunted ghost plants. They aren't meant to last beyond the summer months, and suddenly, our house looked as dead as they did. It drove me CRAZY last winter.

So this year, my mother-in-law generously offered to help us choose and plant new shrubs in hopes we'll be looking snazzy year-round. We spent all of last weekend on the project and despite the exhaustion, we couldn't have been happier with the results! If you'd like to tackle something similar, here's the specs:
  • We ordered six scoops of topsoil (which proved to be too many, but is the minimum the nursery will deliver) and 8 bags of mulch from our nursery for approx $175. 
  • The plants were chosen at Anderson's Home and Garden in Newport News and ran about $508, with a big 30% off sale that day.

Here's the front shot: dying hostas, a calycanthus shrub that has lost its leaves and not much else.

I love that calycanthus, but it's just another dead thing in the winter. The front mound is phlox that was relocated in the big move.


Our side yard. We will probably end up doing more over there, but we did do a little bit, as you'll see.

Miss Margaret with our spoils!

The fully packed forest in our car...no joke. We spent the entire first day digging up layers and layers of mulch from the beds and pulling out the hostas (no easy task).

A shot from Day 2, when we planted our new plants and spread the topsoil. 

We extended our bed around the other side of the house, which had been completely bare. We added three "radiance" abelia bushes and a pink "twist" azalea. Everything is so little right now, and I can't wait to see it this time next year when it's filled in a little more.


And voila! Our new front! Miss Margaret and I selected plants at the nursery, but had also done a ton of research in advance about what might work. The goal was to find dwarf shrubs that won't grow too large and won't need a lot of pruning.

I love the variegated watercolor quality of firepower nandina shrubs, so we selected three to go in the front, accented with pansies.

We chose: dwarf "Bennett" hollies, two golden thread cypress (LOVE!), three loropetalum "purple pixie" plants, three firepower nandina shrubs and four juniper plants for ground cover. Eventually they'll all start to grow together, and Miss Margaret says that's the goal. 

I can't wait to see how it looks in the dead of winter when last year we had nothing! In the moment, it was exhausting, but it's incredible what you can accomplish in two days. 

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Sunday Best v.260


Ouch! My muscles are aching and as many a southern dad says, my dogs are barking. Everything is sore, but it's all for a good reason: we re-landscaped the front beds this weekend! It was a pretty huge undertaking, and we couldn't have done it without my mother-in-law's help. I'll share much more about that this week, but in the meantime, I have some seriously great procrastination links to get you through this week.

Friday, November 6, 2015

Hallowino 2015



You know it's been a busy week when I haven't even updated about Hallowino! Our grand tradition started six years ago and is going strong. We dressed as (left to right): a goth, Sadness and Disgust from Inside Out, a devil and the ghost of Veronica Lake. 


Nothing makes us more delighted than creepy Halloween wines! We sampled some lovely reds, including:
  • 19 Crimes Cabernet Sauvignon: This fun line of wines has a different crime printed on every cork, signifying the 19 crimes one had to commit to get shipped off to Australia. It has hints of red currants, dark berries, sweet vanilla and caramel.
  • Ravenswood Besieged: A great red blend; we're always big fans of the annual Ravenswood Halloween wine!
  • Carnivor Cabernet: A big, bold red with flavors of berries, coffee, mocha and oak.
  • Witching Hour Deep Red Reserve: My hands-down favorite, this wine tasted of dark berries and espresso. Extremely drinkable.
  • Ghost Pines Pinot Noir: A bolder pinot with suggestions of cherry pie, pomegranate and coffee beans. 


Lauren hosted a lovely potluck with a delicious salad, truffles from The Bonbonnier, and Erica's brilliant fettucine alfredo with green food coloring in both the boiling water and the sauce.

 Ashleigh brought a delicious seven-layer bean dip with a spider web of sour cream.

And they don't look great here, but I made mummy hot dogs wrapped in strips of crescent roll dough. Easy peasy and so good!

Thursday, November 5, 2015

My Many Halloweens

There were years and years that I never dressed up for Halloween. Basically my hot years, from 15-20. What a lost opportunity! But for some reason Halloween has never been more fun as it was this year.

For our work fundraiser, we had a Halloween theme this year and my coworker Alex and I dressed as the Black and White swan. So fun! I'm all about costumes that involve a headband and fake eyelashes.

GLITTER EYELASHES.

And of course, there was our annual Hallowino...

And — MOST EXCITING — for the first time in my life, I had trick or treaters. I've always lived somewhere that ended up being a complete bust, with tons of candy left over. Half the fun of homeownership is handing out candy, so I was really pumped about the 40-50 kids who came by. And of course, we still have tons of candy left over.

 Once trick-or-treating ended, we changed into our costumes to go to a party. Sean hadn't planned one (surprise, surprise), so at the last minute went as Joaquin Phoenix on a bender. I went as Disgust from "Inside Out."

Ashleigh was the Sadness to my Disgust, and it was so fun doing a couples' costume with her for the third year in a row! We're officially taking suggestions for next year. Leave 'em in the comments!

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Sunday Best v.259


Halloweeeeeeeeeeeeen!! Coming down from the first year I ever had two costumes; I'll share some more pics tomorrow! If you're being super lazy today like me, here's some great link distraction:


Sunday, October 25, 2015

Sunday Best v.258

Long exposure with Picasso. Photo by Gjon Mili for LIFE magazine, 1949.

Happy Birthday to Picasso, that sonuvabitch. This week is a big week...first at my new job, while still finishing up at my old job, plus it's Halloween!! Ready to skip ahead a bit to when life is more settled, but I know better than to wish time away. Here are some favorite links I stumbled upon this week:

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Art Everywhere, Wine Fest and Fall-ifying the House

Busy times call for a good old-fashioned photo dump post! Things have been extra busy 'round here, because when the weather is moderate in Hampton Roads, every festival is scheduled for every weekend in October.

 A truly amazing thing happened: a nationwide movie has been released about the tiny coal-mining community where I grew up! It was amazing and emotional to see Big Stone Gap on the big screen in Norfolk, like traveling home without the 8-hour drive. I burst into tears the minute I saw the landscape. The movie isn't perfect, but it has a lot of heart and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

 On Thursday and Friday, Norfolk was lit up — literally — with the inaugural NEON Festival, a celebration of all things art. The Norfolk Arts District, or NEON, was blanketed with murals and light installations and performances for two days and it was so, so inspiring. Here are a few of my favorite snaps from the unveiling of the district:

 We ran into Carmel, a friend from the Shenandoah Valley, on the street! So stunning!

 The incredible soon-to-open Glass Wheel Studio, featuring a beautiful mural by Hense.

The cementiscope, an incredible love child of a kaleidoscope and cement mixer created by three ladies from the Chrysler Glass Studio.

 Asa Jackson, finishing up a mural behind Exotic Home.

One of the coolest visual moments: At Work Release, 90's rap videos were projected toward the street, with the DJ silhouetted in front of the screen. So cool to see walking down the block.

And in another alleyway was this delightful space baby, tagged to say, "From Da Womb to Da Moon!" So good. I foresee many, many photo shoots with all the great murals.

 On Saturday, we ventured out for our traditional fall Wine Fest day. Ash and I had a great time scouting out perfect locations for future Wine Fests...

 And many glasses of wine were had!

Lastly, I've tried to autumnify the porch with some mums haphazardly planted and a couple soon-to-be-carved pumpkins. I definitely want to scope out some more pumpkins, though, but Sean reminded me, "We're just going to throw them away."

Monday, October 19, 2015

5-Year Celebration

 It's a little on the late side, but I wanted to post a bit about our five-year anniversary celebration. We wanted to go on a trip but everything about life was conspiring against it. Instead we headed out to the artful Stove restaurant in Portsmouth. The restaurant is a creative, idiosyncratic take on Southern food, decorated with the owner/chef's distinct flair. The art reminds me of early 90s Nickelodeon cartoons in the best way!

 I sipped on a pineapple sage martini...

And Sean enjoyed a Pork-a-Rama, a plate loaded with house-made sausage, slow-roasted pork belly, ham on "smoochie bear" ham, stove sauce and topped with pork belly jam.

 I had shrimp and grits, with the delicious house-made pimento cheese.

 And topped the night off with a rosemary cocktail, too.

My favorite decor element: Seussian vases loaded with flowers, mounted to the wall. Inspiring!

And we finished our anniversary weekend by purchasing a new car! It seems more exciting than it really is. The sad part of adult life is that buying a new car is rarely a treat for yourself; it's brought on by months or weeks of limping along in a car you were really hoping would last longer. But the good news is that every time I walk by the car, I think to myself, "Gosh, that is pretty." Life certainly could be worse.

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Sunday Best v.257

Mural by Bradley Theodore

Oh, lordy I am so behind on things I want to write about! I will try to carve out some time to actually update, but life has been CA-RAZY. Last weekend we spent our entire Sunday at a car dealership buying a replacement for my car, which was limping down the road. I also have accepted a new job and changing jobs is so, so stressful. October is also a super busy social time in Hampton Roads because the weather is moderate enough to enjoy! And to top it all off, I've had a cold this week and I've been trying to carve out enough time each night for a NyQuil coma. 

BUT. I can at least share some links, can't I? Here's a few to peruse on your lazy Sunday:
  • ICYMI last week: the Weezer/Kanye mashup you didn't know you were waiting for.
  • The adorable bromance of Tom Hanks and Steven Spielberg. And while we're at it, the touching tribute Bryce Dallas Howard gave to her dad, Ron Howard.
  • The best podcasts to start with in any subject.
  • I love tiny furniture, so I want to visit this French museum devoted to tiny film sets.
  • Handy dandy ios9 iphone tricks.
  • Kids should do chores and here's why.
  • Maps of prejudice. Guilty of thinking a lot of these things are true!
  • This video illustrates how few women are in leadership roles. It's crazy!
  • Particularly great Gloria Steinem interviews from The New Yorker and Lenny.
  • Artist Statements of the old masters. Hilarious art history jokes abound!
  • I'm carving out some time to read this story about a man making a life after prison.

Friday, October 9, 2015

Five Years



Today marks five years of marriage. I wish I could say we're jetting off to Paris, or even renting a yurt for a romantic weekend, but this year, life has really gotten in the way. 

In fact, I'd say our fifth year has been the toughest: adjusting to being new homeowners and all the curveballs that come with that (including a broken HVAC), dealing with all sorts of stupid illnesses and injuries, managing increasingly crazy car troubles, financial setbacks and just dumb bad luck stuff. 

But we are still so inordinately lucky, so insanely blessed, that it's hard to even take our problems seriously. Life really is sweeter when you see your best friend every day, a person who actually enjoys a nightly ritual of watching Jeopardy during dinner, or a person who gets weirdly obsessed with the performance of her fantasy football team despite truly not knowing what a tight end does. I always marvel at how much easier it is to tackle life's challenges when you know at least one corner of your life is going well. I wish that for everyone, and I thank my lucky stars to have it.

I'm so looking forward to year six, sixteen and sixty. 

I'd be remiss if I didn't share this old favorite: